
New Rules for Love in 2019
- There are no rules
- Everyone wants to tell you your rules. Their rules are not yours to own.
- They do not have your experience; your sexual trauma; your faith beliefs; your sexual desires and attractions; your needs. Other peoples rules do not apply to you
- If its great…great! shut up
- Folks we are sharing way too much of our intimate lives
- Keep the good stuff near and dear to your heart
- Share less, keep more
- Protect yourself
- Folks are still not being safe.
- If you have not established a monogamous relationship, demand safe practices always
- Share your doctor. Visit your doctor together
- It will bring you closer
- It’s a way to create full disclosure
- Get beyond the fear
- Practice makes healthy
- Stop stigmatizing people with STI/STD’s
- Most of you pretend as if you have never had an STI
- Most STI’s are treatable
- Don’t blame victims for the people who lied to them
- Treat STD/STI’s like a disability and we can truly minimize these pandemics
- Plenty of people with HIV/Herpes/ Syphilis have healthy relationships
- If you don’t want monogamy, stop pretending like you do.
- If you want monogamy you must have a discussion about it
- Stop assuming because people love you they are monogamous
- Don’t be afraid to ask
- There is no hierarchy between married and single women.
- Dear married women, being married does not make you more desirable or better than single women. In fact, many married women suffer in silence a lot more than single women, so stop it!
- Men stop labeling women as whores, especially when you can’t keep track of how many lovers you have had.
- Stop with the sex shaming
- It makes you an asshole
- It comes form a place of fragility
- Stop shaming people for their sexuality
- Who they love has no impact on you whatsoever
- Being gay is not a way to emasculate men. News flash there is no master plan
- Self Love
- Love yourself a little more each day
- Don’t expect this to be easy
- Find something about yourself to be thankful for
- What is your super power(s)?
- Find something to do that demonstrates your love for yourself
- Add love to your self-diet
- Diet on the imposter syndrome
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Awesome post! Keep up the great work! 🙂